My cousin Paul called me in the middle of last week. When I asked him what was going on, he replied "I'm getting married next Friday!" I was not expecting that to be what was going on, even though I knew he and Becky had been talking marriage. He called me yesterday morning and said "I keep forgetting to ask. Do you want to come to this thing tonight?" So I went. Congratulations to the happy couple. Welcome, Becky, Ann and Sara, to our madcap extended family.